First message on an online dating site
(Skeptical about the effectiveness of copy & paste? Complimenting her will often give you points, but only if you focus on intangible qualities like intelligence or her accomplishments.
It’s incredibly frustrating and exhausting when you put hours into online dating and don’t hear back from the women you message.
An online dating message is not the same (thank GOD) as a job application.
It's presumptuous to list a bunch of unrequested information about yourself in your message, because doing so assumes that this person already thinks of you as a candidate.
Which brings us to our next examples: Travel makes an awesome subject for a first message because it’s something most women enjoy doing, or at least enjoy dreaming about.
And who doesn’t like to at least think they have a great sense of adventure?